The truth about willpower (not what you think) From A St Johns Wood Personal Trainer
A lot of people ask me about willpower because they think they don’t have enough of it.
Here’s what’s wild about that: it turns out, the fact that they think they don’t have enough willpower might be why they don’t have enough.
Say what?
Back in the 1990s, scientists came up with a theory called “ego depletion,” which basically says that willpower is a limited resource.
And, if you’re tired, stressed, or have made a ton of decisions during the day, you’re more likely to run out of it.
Which sets you up for skipping your planned workouts, ordering takeout instead of eating a healthy home-cooked meal, etc.
BUT… new research suggests that ego depletion may only apply if you believe in it.
So, if you believe you will run out of willpower, you probably WILL.
WOW.
But this is actually really good news.
It means you can take back control (and personal responsibility!) over your actions — and stop “relying” on willpower!
One way to do that: the next time you feel like you don’t have willpower, go into PROBLEM-SOLVING MODE.
Ask yourself: Why do you feel like your willpower is slipping?
● Is it a schedule problem?
● A planning problem?
● Are your expectations too high, too soon?
● Are you tired?
● Are you stressed or upset?
Here’s a real-life example from my own life. I noticed that every Thursday night, I was feeling extra-tempted to order out instead of eating at home.
After I did some thinking about it, I realized what the problem was: Thursday was the day I ran out of my planned & prepped meals for the week.
The solution: Set aside a little time on Wednesday to restock my kitchen so I’ve got healthy food in the house.
Nothing is more motivating than feeling like you’re making solid progress — and the way to keep moving forward is to keep solving those problems!
What people get wrong about “mental toughness From A ST Johns Wood Personal Trainer
There’s a trait that separates people who reach their goals from those who struggle.
It’s not talent, luck, or genetics (although those things don’t hurt).
This trait does more than just help you reach your health/fitness goals.
It also helps you do better in school, excel in sports and your career, and it also plays a role in being a better parent and/or spouse.
It’s mental toughness — aka personal responsibility and accountability — and it’s something you can get better at, over time.
FUN FACT: It might mean something different than you think.
It’s NOT about being a single-minded drill sergeant who harps on discipline all the time.
In fact, it’s almost the OPPOSITE of that.
It’s more about being able to stay focused and determined when challenges pop up — and having the resilience and flexibility to overcome obstacles so you can keep moving toward your goals.
It pays off by helping you manage your thoughts, emotions, and actions so that you can keep a positive mindset!
And even more importantly, it’s about LOVING YOURSELF enough to follow through on your self-care and your goals.
You deserve it!
And that leads me to a little assignment for you — one that has BIG payoffs.
Step 1: Come up with ONE THING that you can do this week to move you closer to one of your goals.
Choose something that you know you have the time and resources for. Examples:
● Hitting all your workouts
● Avoiding processed or junk food
● Meditating every morning
● Signing up for [Your Coaching Program] 😉
Step 2: COMMIT to follow through and get it done.
Following through with the commitments you make to yourself helps build confidence… which leads to even greater mental toughness.
Here’s a quote to keep in mind:
The oak tree fought the wind and was broken, but the willow tree bent and survived.
– Robert Jordan
Hit reply and let me know what your ONE THING is!
How to stop snacking on junk From A St Johns Wood Personal Trainer
Let’s talk about cravings for junk food – and what you can do to beat them.
You know what I’m talking about… you’re sitting at your desk at 2 p.m. and suddenly ALL you can think about are chocolate chip cookies. Or you’re watching TV at night and feel the ice cream or chips in the kitchen calling your name.
These cravings are super common — and they can be caused by a lot of things.
● You could be hungry
● You might be stressed, lonely, or bored
● You’ve developed a habit of snacking around a certain time or activity
● Your hunger hormones might be out of whack from a bad night of sleep or because it’s that time of the month
● You might have a nutrient deficiency
Eating a special treat every once in a while is fine — and even encouraged! But on a regular basis, it can get in the way of your results (not to mention your health).
I’ve got a 4-point list to help you slay those junk food cravings and take back control!
1.Plan ahead. Have healthier options on hand: fruits, cut-up veggies, nuts, etc. (PS: I know you already know this — but do you actually DO it? 🙂 )
2.Hide food offenders. If you have foods in the house that bring on cravings, keep them out of sight!
3.Eat it. Allow yourself to snack on your favorites once in a while. This way they don’t become “forbidden foods” that make you crave them even more.
4.Try mindful eating. When you do indulge, make eating that food your only activity. Turn off the TV, get off your phone, and savor every bite, noticing its taste, texture, temperature, etc. This can help you feel more satisfied with a smaller portion. Plus it can help you decide whether you’re eating because you’re actually hungry… or because of something else (entertainment, to relax, bored, etc.).
Habits can be changed — they just take time!
When you eat better but feel worse From A St Johns Wood Personal Trainer
Hi
I remember the very first time I cleaned up my diet.
I felt like crud. I had a headache, my stomach wasn’t happy, and I was (to say the least) super grouchy.
The good news is, those feelings went away pretty quickly.
But the fact is, feeling a little “off” after changing your diet is pretty common, and it can catch you by surprise ….
Because how could you feel worse when you are taking steps to feel better?
If it happens to you, here are a few possible causes:
● Detox symptoms: When you change the way you eat, your body has to get used to it. This can cause headaches, fatigue, and irritability. The good news is, this is usually temporary and you’ll start feeling better as your body gets used to the new foods.
● More fiber than you’re used to: If you have been eating a low-fiber diet and suddenly start loading up on it, it can take your digestive system a while to adjust. Try gradually increasing the amount of fiber you eat instead of making big changes.
● Dehydration: It’s important to drink enough water throughout the day (especially if you boost your fiber). If you’re not getting enough fluids, you might start to feel worse.
● Lack of planning: It can be harder to stick to a healthy diet if you’re not planning and preparing your meals in advance! This can make it harder to eat enough food and/or eat balanced meals.
Just keep in mind that it takes time for your body to get used to a new way of eating.
Also: If it keeps up, check in with your healthcare provider!
Why do “bad” foods taste so good From A St Johns Wood Personal Trainer
Have you ever noticed that foods that aren’t exactly “good” for you seem to taste amazing?
It’s kind of like Mother Nature is playing a practical joke… but there are a few reasons this happens.
- Many “crave-worthy” foods are loaded with sugar, salt, fat, and empty calories.
- Our brains are hardwired to crave tasty, high-energy (aka high-calorie) foods because they help us survive when food is scarce. (Except for most of us, food isn’t scarce anymore — so we have to be careful not to overeat these foods.)
- Manufacturers spend a LOT of time and money making these foods as delicious as possible – and also on ads to entice us. It’s no surprise that some of these foods are hard to resist!
So if you find yourself craving these foods, that’s by design!
I’m sharing this with you because I believe knowledge is power — and keeping this in mind helps me keep my own food choices in check!
According to the National Academy of Sciences, people eat too many calories, saturated fats, trans fats, and added sugars; too much sodium; and not enough vitamin D, calcium, potassium, or fiber.
Here’s the kicker: the top causes of death (heart disease, diabetes, some types of cancer, etc.) are strongly associated with our food choices!
Now, I am all for moderation (80%-90% healthy foods, 10%-20% “extras”) … but I also know that walking that tightrope can be a real challenge sometimes!
It’s time to discover just how GREAT you can feel!
Committed to your health,
Imran
Have you ever said this From A ST Johns Wood Personal Trainer
Here’s a trap almost everyone has fallen into at one point or another…
Have you ever heard yourself say (maybe only to yourself):
“When [insert anything you are waiting/hoping for] happens, I’ll start focusing more on my fitness/health”?
It could be when …
- the weekend is over
- your schedule eases up
- the seasons change
- your kids reach a certain age
- and on and on and on!
Author Bill Phillips once said…
“If you wait until everything in your life is perfect before you begin something challenging and new, you’ll be waiting forever. The best time is now.”
In other words, stop waiting!
If you keep waiting for the planets to align to get started — because you think it will be easier or somehow “better” — you are robbing yourself of how good you could feel RIGHT NOW!
Remember: It’s not about being perfect. It’s about taking small, imperfect steps in the direction of your goal.
What step can you take today?
Even if it’s something that takes just 2-5 minutes.
Tell yourself it’s “go” time … and go get it done!
I know you can do it.
In the middle of a hard workout, what do you do?
When you are in the middle of a workout and it starts to get hard, what do you do?
- Say, “Well, I guess I’ve reached my limit today,” and stop
- Ask yourself, “Why is this so hard for me? I’m in terrible shape. Why do I even try?”
- Tell yourself, “Bring it on. This is where I SHINE and when it counts the most!”
Here’s another example:
Over the past few days, you’ve been swapping out your not-so-healthy snack with healthier choices. Suddenly you are hit with a MAJOR craving for cookies — but you’re not even that hungry. What do you do?
- Say, “I’m just going to eat the cookies anyway because life is short and who cares.”
- Ask yourself, “Why I am so weak? There must be something wrong with me to get all of these cravings.”
- Tell yourself, “I’ve got this! This is a chance to show my old cookie habit who the real boss is around here!”
Here’s a sneaky secret about both of those scenarios that very few coaches are willing to talk about.
Making changes – even healthy changes — can be HARD sometimes.
It’s because you’re moving out of your comfort zone … which is a good thing!
“You never change your life until you step out of your comfort zone; change begins at the end of your comfort zone.” ― Roy T. Bennett
It’s a sign you’re making REAL progress. Not just physically, but also mentally.
And things WILL get easier. And easier. And easier.
And soon you won’t even have to think about it that much … because it’ll become a HABIT.
Posture & Digestion From a ST Johns Wood Personal Trainer
Good Afternoon
We’re getting a little personal today, but we can’t talk about core strength without today’s topic: digestion!
You might not realize it, but your posture (and core strength) have a HUGE impact on how you digest your food.
Here’s how:
1. Heartburn & Sluggish Digestion
Slouching after you eat can cause pressure in your abdomen, which can trigger acid reflux – which is when stomach acid squirts back up into your esophagus. This can cause heartburn.
Plus, there’s some evidence that slouching can slow down your intestines as food and waste move through your system.
2. Incontinence
Slouching can also increase the pressure inside your abdomen, which puts pressure on your bladder.
On top of that, hunching over makes it harder for your pelvic floor muscles to stand up against that pressure, which can lead to urine leaks.
3. Pooping
I told you we were going to get personal! The thing is, sluggish digestion can lead to constipation, bloating, and gas.
Your posture also plays a surprising role during bowel movements. Slouching can make it harder to go and may be linked with constipation – and even hemorrhoids if you strain.
Sitting with a neutral spine (think about elongating through your sides) and tipping forward slightly from the hips can help ease the “go.” So can placing your feet on a footstool so that your knees are higher than your hips (similar to squatting).
Just a few reasons to think about keeping your core strong, stable, and aligned!
Core Strength Test From A St Johns Wood Personal Trainer
Want an easy way to test your core strength and endurance? Let’s do it!
Proper form is EVERYTHING in this test, so before you start, make sure you know how to get into (and hold!) a perfect plank position.
You can get a form check from an experienced coach who can walk you through it, but a DIY way is to set up a video camera before you do the test so that you can see your form yourself.
Your only goal? Hold your perfect plank as long as possible.
Here are the details:
Get into a forearm plank position so that your upper body weight is supported by your elbows and your legs by your toes.
You can get into this position by lying on the floor on your stomach, and then pushing your body up so that your elbows are on the floor below your shoulders, and your forearms are extending straight out in front of you (hands not touching).
Your hips should be off the floor so that your body forms a straight line from your head to your heels – your face should be looking toward the floor.
As soon as you get into this position, start a timer, and hold your plank as long as you can with good form. Don’t let your hips rise or fall, or your shoulders hunch or sag. Also, be sure to breathe!
Your test is done when your form starts to suffer.
Here are the scores:
- Less than 15 seconds – Very Poor
- 15-30 seconds – Poor
- 30-60 seconds – Below average
- 1-2 minutes – Average
- 2-4 minutes – Above Average
- 4-6 minutes – Very good
- Longer than 6 minutes – Excellent/Elite
How did you do
Is your posture making you stressed From A ST Johns Wood Personal Trainer
Do you slouch because you’re stressed… or are you stressed because you’re slouching?
The answer might make you want to sit up straight right now!
The other day, I came across a study that said not only does your posture affect your physical body (muscles, core, joints, etc)…
It can also affect your mood.
The study, published in the journal Health Psychology, found a significant link between how you sit and your mood, your stress level, and even your self-esteem!
The details?
74 study participants either slouched or sat upright during reading and speech assignments. They were then assessed for their mood, self-esteem, and whether they felt any perceived threats.
The people who sat upright showed higher self-esteem, a better mood, and less fear than the people who slumped.
Unsurprisingly, the “slouchers” showed more negativity and less resilience to stress.
Interesting, right?
It just goes to show you, your small everyday actions — like how you sit — can play a huge role in how you feel not just physically, but also mentally and emotionally!
The next time you feel yourself slouching, take a second to adjust your posture (and a few relaxing breaths) and see if you feel a difference.
(Hint: you will!)
- « Previous Page
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- …
- 19
- Next Page »
Powered by WishList Member - Membership Software